upgrade problem

[trying4firstbass]

Hi, arch/pacman/mankaro noob. When I try to upgrade dostro, software versus pacman, software update center on lower right scroll bar I am always asked to pick betwern two themes. Regardless of which I choose all stops with a pop-up window giving a conflict dependencies between pasma5 themes breTh and breath2? How to fix please? Thank you.

[wdt]

How I upgraded my son's pbp, with this problem
was with command line program,,,, pamac
su ; pamac --help,,,,, and so on
Do set it NOT to go to sleep, most important